Starting Over, Again.

Hello there! I’m Tayla, the brains behind Tayla Made Melts, and I'm thrilled to extend a warm welcome to our new digital abode. Here, amidst the virtual candles and comforting scents, you'll discover a treasure trove of informative blog posts, updates on our candle creations, and tips and tricks for self-care. Don’t hesitate to engage with us—comment, share, and interact. I'm on a mission to foster a vibrant community united by a shared love for candles and self-care.

Let me take you back to January when my partner popped the question: Did I have any ideas for a Valentine’s Day candle collection? Truth be told, I did have some ideas brewing, but I never envisioned bringing them to life. You see, life had thrown me quite a curveball starting from December 2023. A tumultuous experience with full-time employment left me out in the cold—I hadn’t received my December salary, halting all my grand plans for the New Year. 2024 was supposed to be my "level up" year as I approached the milestone of turning 30. Yet, instead of embracing transformation, I found myself plunged into a deep depressive episode, mourning the loss of my envisioned future self.

The stress and anxiety that ensued (my alopecia can attest to it) were expected. What caught me off guard was the overwhelming sense of uncertainty that permeated every aspect of my life. I’m usually adept at navigating tough situations, armed with a solid plan, but this time felt different. It was like staring into the abyss with no clear path forward. Even my relationships suffered under the weight of uncertainty. I found myself in tears daily, desperately seeking an escape route.

Amidst this chaos, my partner’s unwavering support and a newfound project emerged as beacons of hope. Encouraged by my partner, I drafted a pitch for the Valentine’s Day candle range. Serendipitously, as I put the finishing touches on the pitch, our current retail partner expressed interest in a significant order—a sign from the universe, perhaps? They loved the concept, marking the beginning of a journey beyond my comfort zone. Creating this range became my lifeline. From cleaning vessels to pouring wax, I discovered a profound love for the craft. It dawned on me that my purpose had been staring me in the face all along. Love, I realized, isn’t just something we give to others—it's a constant self-affirmation, essential for our well-being.

Now, let’s dive into ‘The Perfect Match’ range—a tribute to the five love languages. Each candle embodies a unique facet of love, transcending romantic notions to embrace friendships and, most importantly, self-love.

- Hear My Love (Words Of Affirmation): Illuminate your space with affirmations that resonate on a deeper level, reflecting your true essence.

- Feel My Love (Physical Touch): Stress the importance of physical connection with a massage candle designed to deepen bonds.

- Buy My Love (Gift Giving): Enhance your ambiance with a candle paired with a delightful gift, a token of self-appreciation.

- Schedule My Love (Quality Time): Cherish moments of togetherness with a candle accompanied by a booklet of duo and solo date ideas.

- See My Love (Acts Of Service): Find solace in a candle that offers a gentle reminder to prioritize self-care during challenging times.

I hope you find resonance in this range, a celebration of the myriad ways we express and receive love. Remember, kindness begins with yourself—nurture your spirit so you can overflow with love for others. If you're navigating a difficult period, share your journey in the comments. We're here to support you every step of the way.